***A satirical take on my single lady experience externally and internally.
Friend: “Bianca, I am going to a year off. I am going to be single for a year.”
Me Internally “Excuse me!?!”
I am bewildered at the thought that “Miss ‘I can get anyone I want'” just wants a break.
Try being single for 27 years. No prospects.
You think I chose this!?! I know myself really well yet nothing.
I would like to take a break from being single. Take a year to date.
I am quite the catch. Pretty, smart, driven, a Christian…what’s not to like.
But I don’t want to just have short-term flings.
I want something meaningful.
So I will wait again..wait for the right one.
Be single. Again for another day, another week, another month, another year.
A choice I have set for myself.
Externally telling my Friend: Yeah girl. You do that. Take that time for yourself. Single life is awesome.
And I move on…