Happy 3rd Anniversary for Blissfully Bianca!

Happy 3rd Anniversary for Blissfully Bianca!

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It’s been 3 years since I started this journey. Before Blissfully Bianca, for the longest time, various friends and peers have always told me how positive I am and how I should write about it. Though I was flattered by the compliments, I never really thought what I said was that important. I live quite a mundane life. I have always thought that there were enough critics in the world bringing negativity; I just wanted to be different.

But God knew what He was doing: He was giving me a platform and stage. He put this desire in me to encourage and share my testimony. My story went beyond my FB friends. My message has reached international audiences (WHOA!). Only God knew what would be.

God was saying my journey was not mundane but worthy of sharing. In three years, I have learned so much about myself. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your comments, likes, and following. Thank you for reading and inspiring me. There is more room to grow but join me for that.

My back to basics lesson is: Your journey is not for you.You are inspiring someone else. Your experiences are meant for someone else out there. People are watching how you are and look to you whether you believe it or not.

I stepped out in faith starting a blog about my journey and living as a blissfully, God-centered version of me. That’s not easy but God knew I had a spiritual gift of encouragement and this is a way to be a light on a hill.

So allow yourself and your journey to be used by God. It made the difference and here we are.

Blissfully,

Bianca

Dear Mama

Dear Mama

One of my favorite Mother’s Day songs is Dear Mama by Tupac. It just puts into perspective how important a mother’s love is. Tupac eloquently rap a story of his mother and how much she means to him.

I wanted to do my own, Dear Mama tribute in writing (can’t rap) to my mommy.

Dear Mom,

I know the stage of my success and greatness was from your sacrifice.

Your time, love, and strength built the home you made.

Even in the hard times, you were the Rock that stood still.

Though you cried silently, you still faced us with strength.

You never made us worry about tomorrow.

You already plan ahead for the day.

You worked nights to be with us during the day.

You applauded concerts, plays, and performances.

You did more for us…above and beyond your own life.

From a woman who endured so much. You gave much more.

You are appreciated.

I love you.

Blissfully,

Bianca

Blissful Lessons from Mom

Blissful Lessons from Mom

In honor of Mother’s Day Weekend, I wanted to share my mom’s wise words to me. I am not the person I am today without her strength, love, and guidance. Though she has taught me a lot of things, I wanted to narrow down the list because it would be an encyclopedia with 10 volumes. But I hope you are encouraged by her words in your own life.

  1. Trust God and Yourself
  2. You are fearfully and wonderfully made.
  3. You are NOT in anyone’s spot. God has you wherever you are for a reason.
  4. You are worthy because God says you are.
  5. Do not be ashamed of who you are.
  6. Be patient with yourself
  7. It’s ok if you don’t get it right the first time. You’re human.
  8. Never envy anyone else’s life because you don’t know what they had to do to get what they have.
  9. Enjoy your single life.
  10. God will order your steps. You are alright.

Blissfully,

Bianca

Happy One Year!!

Happy One Year!!

It started with many people saying I have encouraging words to uplift and my positivity is refreshing…but one person told me you should blog… “I would read your thoughts and words of encouragement.”

So on an August afternoon turned into asking general vague questions on Facebook about me starting a blog, researching the pros/cons and nuances of blogging, seeking advice from my circle. After contemplating, I answered the call.

Now a name…after word searches, asking people, and throwing out names…and a day to mull over my decision, Blissfully Bianca was born.

In this year as a blogger, I have seen my words have power. I have connected with beautiful people from around the country and around the world. I am still learning as I go but the best is yet to come. My year as a blogger has not been solitary  but a great community of friends.

Thank you all for viewing, liking, commenting, giving me feedback, and giving me a platform. Love you all!!

Solitary

Blissfully,

Bianca